Family

"Loving relationships are a family's

best protection against the challenges of the world."

Bernie Wiebe

Family

Max Lucado

It's like a crammed and jammed elevator. People thrust together by chance on a short journey, saying as little as possible. The only difference is you'll eventually get off the elevator and not see these folks again--not so with the difficult relative. Family reunions, Christmas, Thanksgiving, weddings, funerals--they'll be there.

Does Jesus have anything to say about dealing with difficult relatives? Is there an example of Jesus bringing peace to a painful family? Yes, there is.

His own.

It may surprise you to know that Jesus had a difficult family. It may surprise you to know that Jesus had a family at all! You may not be aware that Jesus had brothers and sisters. He did. Quoting Jesus' hometown critics, Mark wrote, "(Jesus) is just the carpenter, the son of Mary and the brother of James, Joseph, Judas, and Simon. And his are here with us" (Mark 6:3)

And it may surprise you to know that his family was less than perfect. They were. If your family doesn't appreciate you, take hear, neither did Jesus'.

It's worth noting that he didn't try to control his family's behavior, nor did he let their behavior control his. He didn't demand that they agree with him. He didn't sulk when the insulted him. He didn't make it his mission to try to please them.

When Jesus' brothers didn't share his convictions, he didn't try to force them. He recognized that his spiritual family could provide what his physical family didn't. If Jesus himself couldn't force his family to share his convictions, what makes you think you can force yours?

I can't assure you that your family will ever give the blessing you seek, but I know God will. Let God give you what your family doesn't. If your earthly father doesn't affirm you, then let your heavenly Father take his place.

STUDY GUIDES

READ MARK 3:20-35

* What circumstances or situations make family gatherings stressful?

* List several reasons why family relationships can be so challenging.

* How can jealousy divide and destroy family?

* How can having different convictions than members of your family cause strife and tension?

* List several things you expect to receive from your family?

* In what ways have Christian friends become like family members to you?

* How are our expectations different with friends than family members?

* Describe what you believe is your responsibility to your family?

* How can you look to God to fulfill the needs that your family has not met in your life?

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The Devotional Bible - Experiencing the Heart of Jesus - Max Lucado General Editor; New Century Version; Thomas Nelson Bibles